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jagirl32 Experienced User

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Posted: Fri 28 Sep 2007 01:54 Post subject: WHY DO WEST INDIANS DO THIS? |
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| Why is it if your an american born to west indian parents west indians rudely and ignorantly refere to you as just an AMERICAN? it's as though they're saying american born west indians have no ties (and should'nt have any)to the west indies at all and that we should only care about things american. when they say things like this it makes me angrey because i for one am very proud of my heritage and plan to pass on everything i know of it to my children if i have any. in addition to this if i where a west indian american who wanted nothing to do with the west indies at all (and i know plenty who don't) the west indians from the islands would be the first to harrass you and want to kick your behind(and i've seen it happen believe me) because to them, your saying that being of west indian heritage is something to be ashamed of. i just don't get it! |
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caribj Suspended

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Posted: Fri 28 Sep 2007 23:43 Post subject: Re: WHY DO WEST INDIANS DO THIS? |
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| jagirl32 wrote: | | Why is it if your an american born to west indian parents west indians rudely and ignorantly refere to you as just an AMERICAN? it's as though they're saying american born west indians have no ties (and should'nt have any)to the west indies at all and that we should only care about things american. when they say things like this it makes me angrey because i for one am very proud of my heritage and plan to pass on everything i know of it to my children if i have any. in addition to this if i where a west indian american who wanted nothing to do with the west indies at all (and i know plenty who don't) the west indians from the islands would be the first to harrass you and want to kick your behind(and i've seen it happen believe me) because to them, your saying that being of west indian heritage is something to be ashamed of. i just don't get it! |
I know Asian Indians sometimes refer to American born Asian Indians as ABCDs (American Born Confused Desis). First generation immigrants dismissing second and subsequent generations as being inauthentic isnt unusual. And yet simultaneously demand that they be more "Indian". I think that the two generations live in different worlds and dont understand each other. I have seen 2nd generations West Indians derisively call some first generations as "those FlatBush Ave" West Indians. |
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G-Man Moderator

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Posted: Mon 01 Oct 2007 13:58 Post subject: |
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This can be said of any ethnic group. I grew up in a heavily Italian-American neighborhood. Many of these "Italians" were second, third or fourth generation Americans and would have been seen as simply American by most people in Italy, despite the fact that they saw themselves as Italians.
In my experience, many West Indians chuckle when Caribbean-Americans call themselves West Indian; they too may see their American-born relations as simply American. But once you become famous, they are quick to claim American-born and bred people as totally West Indian. |
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punjabtrini Mentor

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Posted: Wed 10 Oct 2007 17:40 Post subject: |
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There are far too many definititions of West Indians!
The main definition is those born in the islands of the Caribbeans but when we come in contact with an Anglo-Saxon social construct, the definition undergoes many permutations.
a. It appears that in the Anglo-Saxon media, West Indians refer to those of the English speaking islands.
b. Personally as a Trini, French and English speaking see ourselves as West Indians!
c. Spanish speaking Cuba and Dominican see themselves as separate from Puerto Rico but still do not use the West Indian epitaph but within the term antillano, it may be apropos.
c. The Chinese and Asian Indian West Indians depending on social class MAY use the term West Indian as self identiifcation if they possess enough African ethnicity but many identify with the larger Chinese or Asian Indian communities or even straddle both communities.
d. The ones born in USA tend not to use the term West Indian because their immediate social sphere is AMerican except in places in Brooklyn or Florida, where there is a greater West Indian community so there is a fresh link to their parents origin.
e. Belafonte, Poitier, and others, when they were younger tended to espouse West Indians roots but as they became more socialized and more well known they tended to, with societal acceptance, become more American, as it were.
With few exception such as the former Gen. Powell and Holder, they have become more American while still retaining their roots. SHirley CHisholm, Arnold Rampersad, and others are seen as American! |
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anonymouse Wizard

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Posted: Thu 11 Oct 2007 03:39 Post subject: |
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| punjabtrini wrote: | There are far too many definititions of West Indians!
The main definition is those born in the islands of the Caribbeans but when we come in contact with an Anglo-Saxon social construct, the definition undergoes many permutations.
a. It appears that in the Anglo-Saxon media, West Indians refer to those of the English speaking islands.
b. Personally as a Trini, French and English speaking see ourselves as West Indians!
c. Spanish speaking Cuba and Dominican see themselves as separate from Puerto Rico but still do not use the West Indian epitaph but within the term antillano, it may be apropos.
c. The Chinese and Asian Indian West Indians depending on social class MAY use the term West Indian as self identiifcation if they possess enough African ethnicity but many identify with the larger Chinese or Asian Indian communities or even straddle both communities.
d. The ones born in USA tend not to use the term West Indian because their immediate social sphere is AMerican except in places in Brooklyn or Florida, where there is a greater West Indian community so there is a fresh link to their parents origin.
e. Belafonte, Poitier, and others, when they were younger tended to espouse West Indians roots but as they became more socialized and more well known they tended to, with societal acceptance, become more American, as it were.
With few exception such as the former Gen. Powell and Holder, they have become more American while still retaining their roots. SHirley CHisholm, Arnold Rampersad, and others are seen as American! |
also forget about Stokely Carmichael aka Kwame Ture
Speaking as a first generation american born and raised in NYC, I concur. I have always seen myself as West Indian and even moreso after leaving New York and moving to DC where there are less people like me. When people hear me talking with accented english about drinking tea & crackers (Royal Lunch) or eating tennis when I got home from school, having ovaltine, milo or horlicks or get rub down with bay rum when sick they always ask where I am from.
"Queens" is my reply |
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mulan Regular User

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Posted: Thu 22 Nov 2007 13:23 Post subject: |
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| They do that because of the conflict of 'ideals', and they don't want that to spill over into their general identity. |
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G-Man Moderator

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Posted: Thu 29 Nov 2007 18:58 Post subject: |
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Speaking as a first generation american born and raised in NYC, I concur. I have always seen myself as West Indian and even moreso after leaving New York and moving to DC where there are less people like me. When people hear me talking with accented english about drinking tea & crackers (Royal Lunch) or eating tennis when I got home from school, having ovaltine, milo or horlicks or get rub down with bay rum when sick they always ask where I am from.
"Queens" is my reply |
Culinary tastes are always a dead give away. |
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anonymouse Wizard

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Posted: Fri 30 Nov 2007 01:32 Post subject: |
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| G-Man wrote: | | anonymouse wrote: |
Speaking as a first generation american born and raised in NYC, I concur. I have always seen myself as West Indian and even moreso after leaving New York and moving to DC where there are less people like me. When people hear me talking with accented english about drinking tea & crackers (Royal Lunch) or eating tennis when I got home from school, having ovaltine, milo or horlicks or get rub down with bay rum when sick they always ask where I am from.
"Queens" is my reply |
Culinary tastes are always a dead give away. |
I went to predominately white schools and kids would sometimes ask what I had for dinner the previous night? Fried chicken or watermelon they asked? Invariably I answered fish, peas and rice or some type of curry and that I was allergic to watermelon but I really like cantaloupe which unbeknownst to me effectively killed the joke.
It was only years later in high school did it finally dawn on me what they were doing and I was PISSED!!! Pissed at those "so-called" friends and pissed at myself for not recognizing what they repeatedly attempted to do. hehehe How was I to know that black people were only supposed to eat certain food? lol
brings this skit to mind |
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G-Man Moderator

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Posted: Fri 30 Nov 2007 14:05 Post subject: |
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| anonymouse wrote: | | G-Man wrote: | | anonymouse wrote: |
Speaking as a first generation american born and raised in NYC, I concur. I have always seen myself as West Indian and even moreso after leaving New York and moving to DC where there are less people like me. When people hear me talking with accented english about drinking tea & crackers (Royal Lunch) or eating tennis when I got home from school, having ovaltine, milo or horlicks or get rub down with bay rum when sick they always ask where I am from.
"Queens" is my reply |
Culinary tastes are always a dead give away. |
I went to predominately white schools and kids would sometimes ask what I had for dinner the previous night? Fried chicken or watermelon they asked? Invariably I answered fish, peas and rice or some type of curry and that I was allergic to watermelon but I really like cantaloupe which unbeknownst to me effectively killed the joke. |
You've got to be kidding me!! In the schools I attended that would have sparked a fight. I too went to predominantly whites schools but usually bigotted kids who thought they were funny would ask you to shine their shoes or something. |
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anonymouse Wizard

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Posted: Fri 30 Nov 2007 18:37 Post subject: |
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| G-Man wrote: | | anonymouse wrote: | | G-Man wrote: | | anonymouse wrote: |
Speaking as a first generation american born and raised in NYC, I concur. I have always seen myself as West Indian and even moreso after leaving New York and moving to DC where there are less people like me. When people hear me talking with accented english about drinking tea & crackers (Royal Lunch) or eating tennis when I got home from school, having ovaltine, milo or horlicks or get rub down with bay rum when sick they always ask where I am from.
"Queens" is my reply |
Culinary tastes are always a dead give away. |
I went to predominately white schools and kids would sometimes ask what I had for dinner the previous night? Fried chicken or watermelon they asked? Invariably I answered fish, peas and rice or some type of curry and that I was allergic to watermelon but I really like cantaloupe which unbeknownst to me effectively killed the joke. |
You've got to be kidding me!! In the schools I attended that would have sparked a fight. I too went to predominantly whites schools but usually bigotted kids who thought they were funny would ask you to shine their shoes or something. |
I was so clueless back then! Due to my background and my parents' deliberate efforts I was never saddled with the racial baggage that many others had while growing up. Race really had no meaning for me until I got older. I was good at sports (except for basketball which I still suck at), I was the smartest in my class, I performed extremely well on standardised tests (I was reading on a college level in 3rd grade) and I never had anyone tell me excelling academically was "white". While my mother told me I should never leave the house without some type of ID, she never told me why - she let me figure it out on my own. So while I noticed that people would look at my family funny when we were on the Cape or in Kennebunkport on vacation, I never understood why until many years later |
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G-Man Moderator

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Posted: Fri 30 Nov 2007 19:05 Post subject: |
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| anonymouse wrote: |
I was so clueless back then! Due to my background and my parents' deliberate efforts I was never saddled with the racial baggage that many others had while growing up. Race really had no meaning for me until I got older. |
That is so different from my experience, with the exception of my parents not wanting to saddle me with racial baggage. They saw that as "American" well, “Black American” and counterproductive.
But the neighborhoods and schools I attended in the Bronx and Westchester demanded that I take notice of race. I think I started becoming "racially aware" at the age of eight when I hit the third grade and we moved to the neighborhood I where I grew up. If you didn't you could be in a world of hurt back then. |
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anonymouse Wizard

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Posted: Fri 30 Nov 2007 19:43 Post subject: |
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| G-Man wrote: | | anonymouse wrote: |
I was so clueless back then! Due to my background and my parents' deliberate efforts I was never saddled with the racial baggage that many others had while growing up. Race really had no meaning for me until I got older. |
That is so different from my experience, with the exception of my parents not wanting to saddle me with racial baggage. They saw that as "American" well, “Black American” and counterproductive.
But the neighborhoods and schools I attended in the Bronx and Westchester demanded that I take notice of race. I think I started becoming "racially aware" at the age of eight when I hit the third grade and we moved to the neighborhood I where I grew up. If you didn't you could be in a world of hurt back then. |
Funny that I could grow up in New York City in a white flight neighbourhood and be blissfully unaware of race until close to my teen years yet my son lives in a racially and ethnically mixed upper middle class DC suburban neighbourhood in Anne Arundel County was given a rude awakening to race by the time he was 6 years old. |
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punjabtrini Mentor

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Posted: Fri 30 Nov 2007 20:29 Post subject: |
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| I have never seen or come across a 'basketball' gene yet! |
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anonymouse Wizard

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Posted: Fri 30 Nov 2007 21:52 Post subject: |
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| punjabtrini wrote: | | I have never seen or come across a 'basketball' gene yet! |
Well the basketball gene is lacking in every male member of my family. I was on the school basketball team in 8th grade and scored only 2 points for the entire season. But give me a soccer ball?
Give me a wicket to defend?
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punjabtrini Mentor

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Posted: Tue 04 Dec 2007 22:01 Post subject: |
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| Perhaps some of us have a 'limin' gene (if your are a Trini) or a cricket gene! |
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anonymouse Wizard

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Posted: Wed 05 Dec 2007 17:23 Post subject: |
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| My football (soccer) gene is definitely stronger than my cricket one. But I definitely have a limin gene. |
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MixedMuffin Probationary
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Posted: Tue 11 Dec 2007 12:19 Post subject: Too true |
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| I think once you left the island youre no longer classed as West Indian. My dad was born in St Lucia and he left when he was kind of young but he can still understand St Lucian creole but he doesnt have an accent now . The way native islanders reacted to him when he was there was kind of funny they call him British even tho he wasnt classed as this til after i was born some 20yrs after leaving St Lucia. |
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anonymouse Wizard

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Posted: Tue 11 Dec 2007 15:27 Post subject: Re: Too true |
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| MixedMuffin wrote: | | I think once you left the island youre no longer classed as West Indian. My dad was born in St Lucia and he left when he was kind of young but he can still understand St Lucian creole but he doesnt have an accent now . The way native islanders reacted to him when he was there was kind of funny they call him British even tho he wasnt classed as this til after i was born some 20yrs after leaving St Lucia. |
Once you are West Indian born, you are West Indian for life. When your dad left Lucia where did he go? Is your dad white? In the colonial days, quite a few native born whites referred to themselves as "British" instead of *insert native island*. I ask this because at independence, residents of former British colonies were given their choice of citizenship: country of birth or British. Many whites chose British
Referring to him as British while not quite derogatory would not be considered complimentary |
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punjabtrini Mentor

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Posted: Tue 11 Dec 2007 18:58 Post subject: |
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I think that was how it was in the old days. Many West Indians who left to go to England were 'British' citizens and that was their identity.
Delroy Lindo (Jamaican, born in UK) as 'American' an actor he is, still considers himself British by birth, social milieu and education so I am using this is as a type of fluid identity as opposed to a static one, that is present is US.
The guy who played the Muslim in Oz, a Trini, also sees himself as British because that was where he grew up, hence his identity. I am using British as nationality or citizenship in that these West Indians are not English, Welsh, Irish or Scottish, which pertains to ethnicity. They are all British as place and location and birth! |
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Posted: Tue 11 Dec 2007 19:14 Post subject: |
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| punjabtrini wrote: | | The guy who played the Muslim in Oz, a Trini, also sees himself as British because that was where he grew up, hence his identity. |
Is that the guy who played the dentist? He's on "Jericho" as well. He was also in the film version of the "The Mystic Masseur." I wondered why he had the Trinidadian accent down pat. Now I know. |
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