Posted: Sun 17 Jul 2005 04:06 Post subject: Tolerating a Time Bomb
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July 16, 2005
New York Times
Tolerating a Time Bomb
By LEON de WINTER
Amsterdam
FOR centuries the Netherlands has been considered the most tolerant and liberal nation in the world. This attitude is a byproduct of a disciplined civic society, confident enough to provide space for those with different ideas. It produced the country in which Descartes found refuge, a center of freedom of thought and of a free press in Europe.
That Netherlands no longer exists.
The murder last year of the filmmaker Theo van Gogh, whose killer was convicted this week, and the assassination of the politician Pim Fortuyn in 2002 marked the end of the Holland of Erasmus and Spinoza.
No, the Dutch suddenly did not become intolerant and insular. But these killings showed the cumulative effect of two forces that have shaken the foundations of Dutch civic society over the last 40 years: the cultural and sexual revolution of the 1960's and 70's and the influx of Muslim workers during those years of prosperity.
While most of Europe points to that epochal year of 1968 as a watershed, perhaps no country was affected as profoundly by the radicalism of the times as the Netherlands. In less than 15 years most forms of traditional authority and hierarchy, the counterbalancing forces that made Dutch tolerance possible, were undermined. Among students and the intellectual elites, "civil disobedience" in itself was more admired than the point behind such actions. Provos - students and artists staging absurdist "happenings" - and squatters ruled the streets, and in 1980, the apogee of Holland's cultural revolution, the coronation ceremony of Queen Beatrix in Amsterdam vanished behind a haze of tear gas and anarchistic rioters.
Hence the current image of Dutch tolerance: marijuana served at coffee shops, police officers growing their hair as long as the Grateful Dead, gays and lesbians coming out of the closet without fear or hindrance, public television showing full nudity and, for those who prefer not to work, a government package of benefits that makes a toil-free life entirely feasible.
The second, simultaneous, change in Dutch life was the recruitment of young men from the Rif Mountains of Morocco, most illiterate and many with only a rudimentary grasp of spoken Dutch, to work in Holland's rapidly expanding industries. When they came to the country, often under long-term government work visas, they were faced with a highly educated but apparently decadent society in the grip of a cultural revolution. Many were astonished: was this country some sort of freak show?
No, it certainly wasn't. Under the effusive "anything goes" exterior, the majority of Dutch people held on to their disciplined Calvinist values. To the immigrants, however, this core was all but invisible.
For a while, the immigrants did the dirty work for which no training was needed, and the two factions lived amicably. But during the technology- and service-oriented economic boom of the 1980's and 90's, the demand for unskilled work declined. The "guest workers" were no longer needed in such numbers, but they were also not required to return to Morocco. Instead they were given extensive social benefits and their families were allowed to come from Morocco to join them. It was the birth of the ethnic-religious ghettoes that surround our affluent cities and towns. And thus the delicate mechanism of Holland's traditional tolerant society gradually lost its balance. The news media, politicians and artists gnawed away at the traditional values of Calvinistic civic society, while in the bleak Muslim suburbs resentment grew among the Moroccans' Dutch-born children, who found the promise of an affluent life unfulfillable.
Meanwhile, the news media and politicians maintained an unofficial ban on any discussion of the problems of immigration: after all, in progressive Holland only socioeconomic problems were admissible. It was simply not acceptable to discuss problems relating to religion and culture.
This mix of cultural confusion, religious misunderstanding and political correctness provided the stage on which Pim Fortuyn performed. In the international press, Mr. Fortuyn was often described as a right-wing radical, a label he loathed. He was a liberal with respect to personal freedom and a conservative with respect to social norms and values - that is, he was a classic tolerant Dutchman.
Proud to be gay, he protested against the religiously based homophobia openly espoused in the Muslim ghettos. Yet he also emphasized the need for integrating Muslims into larger society and tolerance for their faith. His political incorrectness shocked the press and political establishment, but many among the traditional citizenry recognized Mr. Fortuyn as a kindred spirit. This unconventional gay politician spoke up for the conventional middle-class heterosexual. At the time he was killed by an animal-rights advocate in 2002, he was the front-runner to become prime minister.
Theo van Gogh, artiste provocateur nonpareil, never pursued a political career. In the course of his 20 years in the public eye, he grossly insulted at least half of the nation. His films were intended to shock; his newspaper columns (of which I was the target more than once) were exercises in outlandish mudslinging - although never lacking in humor and stylistic talent. In recent years, he had focused increasingly on the problems with immigration and Muslim intolerance.
The radicalized children of disappointed Islamic immigrants were unable to appreciate the humorous side of the Van Gogh phenomenon. Many of these young men have found an expression for their growing sense of frustration, alienation and anger in orthodox Islam. They have no use for Holland's tolerance of alternative lifestyles, or for its professional blasphemers. Last Nov. 2 a young Islamic fundamentalist, born in Amsterdam to Moroccan parents, shot Mr. Van Gogh in the street and then tried to cut off his head. In a final statement at his trial last week, the murderer declared that he had killed Mr. Van Gogh for insulting the Prophet.
The trial lasted only two days, but the fallout will be with us for many years. Much of the electorate no longer feels any loyalty to the existing political parties. Many want to preserve the Dutch welfare state, but it's unclear how to maintain it in an aging nation that is absorbing immigrants. The Dutch "no" vote to the European Union Constitution last month was just one aspect of this frustration.
WITHOUT a radical change in direction, Dutch tolerance may become its own victim. The first step is enacting laws to curb immigration from Islamic countries. We must also consider ways to prevent arranged marriages between Muslims living here and people from the Rif (more than half of Dutch Moroccans marry a traditional partner from their parents' home village).
In the longer term, we must somehow stimulate young Muslims to identify with the Calvinist values of the majority. The radicalization among small groups of young Muslims, a threat that cannot be fought within Holland's borders alone, is a time bomb.
Perhaps what this country needs most of all is another unconventional, outspoken gay politician.
Leon de Winter is a novelist and political columnist for Elsevier magazine.
I once knew an Iranian graduate student who, after attending a festival, expressed surprise to see families walking together - sometimes even three generations. It was amazing to him that Americans had families, illogical as that may seem. He spent nearly all his time in a university community in which he interacted with Americans as individuals, never asking himself where these individuals came from.
It may be easy for people who come from cultures with extended families that exercise nearly complete control over their members to interpret the individualism and personal freedom of the West as no family at all. This attitude, of course, makes it easier for them to depersonalize and demonize Western people.
The media demonization of Pim Fortuyn as "right wing" for demanding that his society drop the gentlemen's agreement of silence about the effects of immigrants' culture and religion reminds me of the way the NAACP and their allies portrayed "Interracial Voice" and "The Multiracial Activist" as the "right wing" of the multiracial movement.
And I will add that, many of my Latinos friends are often shocked to see American families having holiday celebrations and being together.
Years ago I dated a Colombian. I invited him to our Christmas dinner - my father's side of the family (the American side - multiracial side - my mother's side the Puerto Rican side was not there - they live in a different state). We were all together, laughing, hugging, etc. He was shocked. He said he had never seen an "American" family like this. His sister married an "American" and their holidays are a snooze - all dull and boring. (I went once to her family's house). He could not believe that an American family could be like this - he stated "Your family is more like a Latin family!"
I believe it is the multiracialness of the family. The "black" influence adds a lot of warmth, hugging, closeness to kin, religiousness, spirituality, that is lacking in many Anglo families (I say Anglo because I DO see a lot of warmth in Jewish, Italian, Greek-origin American families - but Anglo and
German have seemed to me very cold.)
Abroad, an "American" is an Anglo. The rest of us "Just don't look/act like Americans" - that is a whole other topic.
The "black" influence adds a lot of warmth, hugging, closeness to kin, religiousness, spirituality, that is lacking in many Anglo families (I say Anglo because I DO see a lot of warmth in Jewish, Italian, Greek-origin American families - but Anglo and German have seemed to me very cold.)
It is a culture thing. Many years ago, when we were living and working overseas, I read a very funny book about this while on an airplane. I wish I could remember the name. It said that some cultures are very touchy-huggy and others are made uncomfortable even by proximity. It gave many examples. The simplest test of this, it said, was how close unrelated people stand when they converse. At one extreme are the Brazilians, who hug and kiss and talk nose-to-nose even with strangers. At the other extreme were Germans (and Japanese) who never touch, except for a brief barely-contact handshake, and who stand a good yard away from each other when they talk.
Since I was on the plane with a bunch of engineers from an IBM plant in Sao Paulo, and we were on our way to Mainz to discuss product/process designs with German engineers, I resolved to pay attention to how these two extremes interacted when in conversation.
The first mixer was hilarious! The Brazilians kept trying to get closer and closer because, to them, the Germans were acting rude and stand-offish. And the Germans kept retreating because, to them, the Brazilians were acting offensively familiar. As a result, you saw all these engineers in a sort of dance around the room, with each German walking backwards to get away from his Brazilian counterpart who kept advancing. Now and then, a Brazilian would trap a German in a corner of the room or between pieces of furniture, and the German would damned near panic, trying to get away!
I was laughing my head off, but refrained from explaining why.
Posted: Tue 09 Aug 2005 21:13 Post subject: Daughter from Danang
When I first viewed this documentary about a former Amerasian orphan from Vietnam who was reared as a white Southerner and decided to reconnect with her birth mother and her family, I saw trouble coming. The Vietnamese mother was hanging on her daughter, Heidi, all the time. She even wanted to sleep with Heidi. We Americans are not, for the most part, a touchy-feely people. Something had to give.
Posted: Fri 16 Mar 2007 05:45 Post subject: Geert Hofstede on Brazil
Will people who've lived in Brazil comment on this? It's interesting that the author makes no comments about "race" or warns visitors not to make the assumption that everyone who "looks black" to them identifies that way. Certainly, North Americans would need that advice.
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