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gemini072
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| pianoplayer111 wrote: | I'm sure lots of guys would HOOK UP with Paris Hilton, Ty.
lol yeah, fame does that doesn't it? Something about being on tv or movies makes a person look more attractive or appealing for some reason. That same person if not famous and around the way may not have that same appeal.
Would they want a relationship with her? Nope!
lol true, but many people do marry for money or fame/exposure
So basically what I think Bischoff is saying is that he likes DECENT women...not trash. Like it or not, that's what comes to most people's minds when they think of a woman who had the misfortune of coming from the ghetto, a trailer park, or a "disadvantaged background" to put it nicely.
Coming from that type of environment doesn't always make the person, as Richard said. However, most of the time it does, from what I've observed. |
True, and i've also taken not that what may be seen in the streets doesn't reflect who is at home, church, the job trying to better themselves in that same environment. It's because they are not on the street we don't see them. |
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gemini072
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| Posted: Tue 13 May 2008 02:02 Post subject: |
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| Richard Miller wrote: | To be totally honest about Paris Hilton's looks, if she was just another chick from around the corner, she wouldn't exactly turn heads at the local night club.
Every man, whether he'll admit it or not, has "hooked up" with a woman from the local club or bar, who wasn't that good-looking, but out of a feeling of laziness or urgency at the time, approached the best looking woman that he knew would say "yes" right away. While Paris Hilton doesn't really look "all that" in my eyes, she does look like SOME effort will be required - needless to say, most of us have hooked up with worse. |
I agree, (she has literally no behind) it looks like when she sits down she should just slide off of whatever it is she's trying to sit on.
She has a bit of money and can afford to make herself look better. |
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anonymouse
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| Bischoff wrote: | | I would never go out with New York in a million years. She is too loud, obnoxious, and acts way too ghetto for my tastes. I prefer women who acts more feminine and ladylike. That is why I could never see myself dating an African American woman from the innercity. |
Do you even know what the term "inner city" means? I think the term has been thrown around so often that the definition has been lost. |
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Creole GAL
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[quote="Creole GAL"][i]Do White guys prefer or even like Black women? No.
I think,even without and facts, stats ,it is easy to say ,that White guys do not prefer Black women....and that is okay. It is a racial thing.[/[/i]quote]
Gemini072 wrote:[color=green]You made 2 very different questions and answered no to both[/color]
[color=green]The first question "Do white guys prefer black women?" I would say no too[/color]
[color=green]"Do white guys like black women?" Yes they do, all don't most probably don't but there are a lot of white men that like black women... We are having a conversation on the Lovings a white man with a black woman[/color][/quote]
1 Thanks Gemini! UGH!!!!!!!!!!! I need to proofread!!!! I meant to TYPE " It is not a racial thing." :-(
2 That second quote is not from me.
3 I did post two different questions there and answered no to both.
4 I know the posts changed to the Lovings,but I wanted to post and answer the thread's question.
5 I stand by this... You like what you like and I do not think it is a racial thing that some people are just not sexually attracted wanting to date or marry others of a different ethnic group.
Likewise, many people say this and feel this way, but then they just meet someone of a different ethnic group and they just click...chemistry. Those kind of people in those kind of relationships are the best examples of people who just naturally allow or not allow a relationship to happen because it is not a conscious thing. It just happens. Chemistry takes over. Fictional example-The movie, Something New. The female lead character was adament about no White guys. Only one kind of man for her, Black, and eventually her common sense and chemistry took over when she met the "other man." It happens in real life like this for many people as well. The other character, the guy, made it clear that he just dated women of all groups and he based them as individuals. Some people just date across ethnic groups. Some people do not. I do not think it is racial. I do not think they are racist. Now, what about people who are of one ethnic group and they date only other groups...that is a another thread and a different thread. |
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gemini072
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| Posted: Tue 13 May 2008 13:06 Post subject: |
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| Creole GAL wrote: | Do White guys prefer or even like Black women? No.
I think,even without and facts, stats ,it is easy to say ,that White guys do not prefer Black women....and that is okay. It is not(edit)a racial thing.[/quote]
You made 2 very different questions and answered no to both
The first question "Do white guys prefer black women?" I would say no too
"Do white guys like black women?" Yes they do, all don't most probably don't but there are a lot of white men that like black women... We are having a conversation on the Lovings a white man with a black woman |
1 Thanks Gemini! UGH!!!!!!!!!!! I need to proofread!!!! I meant to TYPE " It is not a racial thing." 
2 That second quote is not from me.
3 I did post two different questions there and answered no to both.
4 I know the posts changed to the Lovings,but I wanted to post and answer the thread's question.
No, I meant the original thread was about Black White (Americans) which brings in a different dynamic
5 I stand by this... You like what you like and I do not think it is a racial thing that some people are just not sexually attracted wanting to date or marry others of a different ethnic group.
I agree, I don't think it's racial or racist not to be attracted to someone of another ethnic group.
Sometimes it is because of prejudices. I have a female friend Belgiorno who was told by a white dude he could never date an Italian because they are greasy.
I definately agree with your post, and it is a complex issue (the laws of attraction)
Sometimes where it seems it's not racial, you ask a person and they are honest, things come out that point to ethnic difference. A friend of mine (Montana) is Italian/Sicilian, he is highly attracted to black women (darker skinned-non mixed) He has a female friend who he is attracted too but she liked him but wasn't really drawn to him, one of the reasons is she doesn't like a lot of hair on the guys she dates. Most black men are not hairy, most Italian men are. So it wasn't directly 'racial' or ethnic but when it comes down to it... it really is.
And then as you said there are people only drawn to people like themselves because that's all they have ever known.
I think people who for a period of time are socially mingled with peole of different ethnic groups fall into that catagory of people who easily allow chemistry to take over.
There is a scientific word I'm seaching for. I had a list of them a while ago. There is a word for people who are sexually attracted to people of another race.
Likewise, many people say this and feel this way, but then they just meet someone of a different ethnic group and they just click...chemistry. Those kind of people in those kind of relationships are the best examples of people who just naturally allow or not allow a relationship to happen because it is not a conscious thing. It just happens. Chemistry takes over. Fictional example-The movie, Something New. The female lead character was adament about no White guys. Only one kind of man for her, Black, and eventually her common sense and chemistry took over when she met the "other man." It happens in real life like this for many people as well. The other character, the guy, made it clear that he just dated women of all groups and he based them as individuals. Some people just date across ethnic groups. Some people do not. I do not think it is racial. I do not think they are racist. Now, what about people who are of one ethnic group and they date only other groups...that is a another thread and a different thread.[/quote] |
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pianoplayer111
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| Posted: Tue 13 May 2008 16:20 Post subject: |
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"I agree (she literally has no behind) it looks like when she sits down she should just slide off of whatever it is she's trying to sit on".
Ty, behave yourself!  **spanks both Ty and Richard, sends them to the time-out corner**
I dunno, Paris seems to think she's hot stuff anyway. My fiance works with this guy (who is married but we suspect that he's gay) who LOVES her. Maybe there is some truth to the stereotype that gay men tend to be more aesthetically drawn to the looks of very androgynous/masculine females in the fashion world.
Ty, how did your friend react to that guy's comment? That is mean.  I believe that we all have biases to an extent, but I would never reject anyone as a friend or potential partner based on skin color or any other superficial nonsense. I only distance myself from people who conduct themselves in ways that I find undesirable. Color is irrelevant when it comes to the friendships that I have, IMO...it is the character of individuals that concerns me the most.
It is true that most White men tend to be more hirsute than black men. My fiance has dark brown hair, piercing blue eyes like mine, and fair freckled skin with lots of reddish-brown fur all over his body. He isn't Italian...his parents are both of Scottish descent and they're very Southern. |
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gemini072
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| Posted: Tue 13 May 2008 16:31 Post subject: |
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| pianoplayer111 wrote: | "I agree (she literally has no behind) it looks like when she sits down she should just slide off of whatever it is she's trying to sit on".
Ty, behave yourself! **spanks both Ty and Richard, sends them to the time-out corner**
I dunno, Paris seems to think she's hot stuff anyway. My fiance works with this guy (who is married but we suspect that he's gay) who LOVES her. Maybe there is some truth to the stereotype that gay men tend to be more aesthetically drawn to the looks of very androgynous/masculine females in the fashion world.
Ty, how did your friend react to that guy's comment?
She was confused by it for a while but she loves her ethnicity, olive complexion and thick (shiny) darkbrown seriously curly hair. She seems to hand prejudiced beliefs well. Her family actually got a lot of flack from Irish -American associates for some reason.
That is mean. I believe that we all have biases to an extent, but I would never reject anyone as a friend or potential partner based on skin color or any other superficial nonsense. I only distance myself from people who conduct themselves in ways that I find undesirable. Color is irrelevant when it comes to the friendships that I have, IMO...it is the character of individuals that concerns me the most.
It is true that most White men tend to be more hirsute than black men. My fiance has dark brown hair, piercing blue eyes like mine, and fair freckled skin with lots of reddish-brown fur all over his body. He isn't Italian...his parents are both of Scottish descent and they're very Southern. |
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pianoplayer111
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What's the deal? Did she ask him out, only to be shot down?
Hmm...it is noteworthy because I've heard so often that both groups (Italian-Americans AND Irish-Americans) were viewed as nonwhites in this country for a while. So the fact that people of Irish descent would be unkind to this person and her family because they perceive Italians as "greasy" is upsetting.
Kudos to her for not allowing that moron to lower her self-worth. And kudos to her for being proud of her culture and who she is! |
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gemini072
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| Posted: Tue 13 May 2008 17:29 Post subject: |
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| pianoplayer111 wrote: | What's the deal? Did she ask him out, only to be shot down?
Actually that was the confusion he was someone she knew in college and he just came out of the blue with the comment. Almost like he was considering her romantically.
Hmm...it is noteworthy because I've heard so often that both groups (Italian-Americans AND Irish-Americans) were viewed as nonwhites in this country for a while. So the fact that people of Irish descent would be unkind to this person and her family because they perceive Italians as "greasy" is upsetting.
Kudos to her for not allowing that moron to lower her self-worth. And kudos to her for being proud of her culture and who she is! |
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Richard Miller
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| pianoplayer111 wrote: | Ty, behave yourself! **spanks both Ty and Richard, sends them to the time-out corner**
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Hehe, unfortunatley, this is something that many women don't want to hear; namely, the one's who measure their... "beauty" (or other aspects of self esteem) by the number of men they attract or have had sex with, or how attractive those men are. Some of those very women just might have benefitted one too many times from a man's laziness or urgency...  |
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erasmusinfinity
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Do white guys like black women?
Yes. Yes they do. It's a simple matter of biology. |
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mixedmom
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| Perhaps a better question would be, Are white men afraid to ask black women out? |
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Grasshoppa
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| I know some white guys who would only date the finest, finest black girls. A friend's response to a comment about meagan good was: "she does look good for a black girl." As a matter of fact, the closest he would get to dating "outside of his race" is a latina, with a slightly mixed but mostly European phenotype. We differ alot in that respect. |
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G-Man
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| Grasshoppa wrote: | | I know some white guys who would only date the finest, finest black girls. |
If only black guys would do this with white women.....I kid, well sort of.  |
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gemini072
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| G-Man wrote: | | Grasshoppa wrote: | | I know some white guys who would only date the finest, finest black girls. |
If only black guys would do this with white women.....I kid, well sort of. |
lol your not kidding
I always black out for a second when I see a guy with a woman uglier than he is...
Usually the woman always looks better than the man to various degrees |
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G-Man
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| Always go for the gold or platinum. That's what I say. Rusty brass and copper must never do. |
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mixedmom
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| G-Man wrote: | | Always go for the gold or platinum. That's what I say. Rusty brass and copper must never do. |
There would be a lot fewer people in the world is this advice was taken to heart! |
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gemini072
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| mixedmom wrote: | | G-Man wrote: | | Always go for the gold or platinum. That's what I say. Rusty brass and copper must never do. |
There would be a lot fewer people in the world is this advice was taken to heart! |
lol true
I think it's still a truth that men always have a woman that looks better than them.
A man at point 5 ugliness will have a woman with point 3-1 ugliness
We'll never see the opposite of Jermaine Dupre & Janet Jackson |
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G-Man
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| mixedmom wrote: | | G-Man wrote: | | Always go for the gold or platinum. That's what I say. Rusty brass and copper must never do. |
There would be a lot fewer people in the world is this advice was taken to heart! |
Mixedmom you know you're platinum...You should have no sympathy for those who qualify as brass or copper and those who fall for them. 
| Quote: | | We'll never see the opposite of Jermaine Dupre & Janet Jackson |
And that's the way it is. (Or should be?) |
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Grasshoppa
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| gemini072 wrote: | | mixedmom wrote: | | G-Man wrote: | | Always go for the gold or platinum. That's what I say. Rusty brass and copper must never do. |
There would be a lot fewer people in the world is this advice was taken to heart! |
lol true
I think it's still a truth that men always have a woman that looks better than them.
A man at point 5 ugliness will have a woman with point 3-1 ugliness
We'll never see the opposite of Jermaine Dupre & Janet Jackson |
I would have agreed, but I've lately been seeing alot of average looking dudes, with some really beat women. <---usually beat looking because they don't look like they care about their looks, and the women are usually obese.
Then again, the folks that I see like this "look" low income, if that makes any sense, so maybe that has something to do with it. Oddly enough, it seems this is the case more so with AA males, and those coupled with white women as well as black women. I also think that white males more often than other races of males, have girls more attractive than themselves, especially if it is interracial. For example, in most cases, when I see a WM/BF couple, the black female is imo very attractive whereas the white male is average. Of course, this is based on what I perceive as attractiveness though. |
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